This was funny to me considering the fact that the saliva coating fork tines isn’t any different from what you’d come in contact with during a passionate kiss. And is certainly one of the more benign body fluids a couple can swap.
Anyway, this got me to thinking about disgust and sex, in general. So, I did a little looking around and found two interesting studies–including one that ties these topics to our monthly menstrual cycle.
Turns out, during your ovulatory phase–which are the final two days at the end of your Week 2 and one day into your Week 3–you tend to get more easily disgusted by gross things related to sex, for instance, a really weird position, odd sex toy or unsavory scene in an erotic movie, according to a 2003 study in Evolution and Human Behavior.
Researchers speculate that this increased sensitivity to sexual disgust helps boost your chance of pregnancy during this fertile phase of your cycle by helping you avoid stuff that can hamper conception. Like sexual positions that won’t get his sperm anywhere near your egg.
But, like with most things, that’s not the whole story.
A more recent study conducted in 2013 from the University of Groningen in the Netherlands shows that once you’re sexually aroused, that ovulation-triggered sense of disgust wanes, making you more likely to do or watch the thing that would have normally grossed you out.
And you really gotta hand it to the female study participants who volunteered to help the researchers figure this out. Boy, were they ever up for a challenge:
During the study, some of the volunteers were asked to watch a “female-friendly” erotic movie called “de Gast”–Dutch for “The Guest”–by Christine le Duc while others watched a high-adrenaline sports film (such as sky-diving) and others watched a neutral film.
Then, all the participants were all asked to do some pretty revolting sex-related stuff, like sticking their hands in a bowl of used condoms (which were really just juiced with lubricant, but the gals didn’t know), lubricate a used vibrator with their bare hands (little did the volunteers know that the vibrator was actually clean) and place a woman’s soiled undies in a bag (which were actually new, but again, the participants were unaware).
That’s when the researchers discovered that women who became aroused from the sex film were less disgusted by the gross tasks and more willing to do them.
This sexual arousal also led them to do other revolting stuff not related to sex, like drinking water from a glass that had a bug in it (they weren’t told the bug was plastic), handle used toilet paper (which was actually smeared with brown-colored food, but still, yuck) and some other tasks that, honestly, are so revolting, I can’t in good conscience leave those images implanted in your head all day. (But, I bet you think twice next time you consider signing up to be a study volunteer.)
Since I like to see some teachable moment in all of the studies I share, I’m trying to look a useful take-away here. Not gonna lie though–this one’s a toughie.
Maybe it’s that if you’re going to try something seriously kinky in the boudoir that’s totally out of your comfort zone (inspired by Japanese anime, for instance) or something really ewwy outside the bedroom (like entering a gross-out contest), you should warm up first with some kind of sex play or erotica you find stimulating.
That’s it. That’s all I got.
Oh, and let your partner’s wet fork tines touch your food. Otherwise, you’re just saying “Your kisses make me wanna retch.”
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